A poem on love…

Love isn’t about just holding hands and morning kisses,

It’s about washing dishes and cooking together.

It’s about understanding each other’s goals and supporting through tough times.

It’s about picking them up when they fall… and reminding them why they started it.

Love isn’t about , making love on the bed of roses ; it’s about bringing them flower on the days they least expect or they are at their lowest or surprising them with morning breakfast or bed tea.

Love isn’t about partying or having a romantic candle night dinners it’s about having beautiful conversations and respecting others opinions.

Love isn’t just about traveling together it’s about creating memories even in those stupid conversations at home.

Note to self

You are worthy of love

Self care isn’t selfish

Show gratitude every morning to the universe/god,

Communication is important

Never ever despair

Don’t judge others

Create your boundaries

Talk to someone

Don’t indulge in self criticism

Don’t discuss people, rather discuss ideas

Donate

Get up early and workout

Meditate

If you read all the above points, thankyou so much. These notes are important. I am slowly getting myself back to writing 😊. I wish to motivate and help others by my writing.

Thanks,

Shruti

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Took a break…

Hi my fellow bloggers!

It has been a while I haven’t posted anything because of my professional and personal commitments.

I also took a break because I wasn’t myself, was going through a lot of stress and anxiety. WFH, lockdown and the fear of going out has been too much for me. I was in a lot of stress because of my work. Always on laptop and mobile has made me so lethargic that I don’t feel like doing anything. Overthinking was the cherry on top of the cake, I wasn’t able to think.

I needed my space , though I am still going through a lot but things will eventually get normal.

So I will be back to writing in a few days.

Spirituality with the modern twist

Hi my fellow bloggers. As of today my mental health is fairly better and I am have been doing great. I really wanted to write on this topic from a long time but was neither was I able to think nor I was able to express myself in words. The wfh has really taken a toll on my mental health and I am sure many others.

But, I will keep that topic for some other day. Let’s focus on spirituality for now.

So, what does spirituality mean to me? To me it means being neutral with your emotions, helping others, meditation, no expectations.

But, in today’s era people of my age and youngsters are confusing it with indulging in addictions such as weed by giving themselves reasons such as Shiva being an aghori used to have chillum. Which is absolutely incorrect. The books available in the market, emphasises more on modern Shiva which gives them reasons and makes them feel better by indulging in addictions.

All I want to clear is Shiva never asked us to indulge in chillum knowing it’s not good for health. We need to stop giving reasons for our actions.

To really understand the meaning of spirituality you need to work on your self. You need to stop expecting from others, release attachments. I know it’s difficult. And also it doesn’t mean that you stop loving your closed ones it just means that you don’t expect anything in return.

Releasing yourself from attachments is an act of being spiritual. That doesn’t mean you leave everything and go to Himalayas for meditation. It just means that you are content with yourself. You still love people.

Usually, when people reach a certain age or rather I should say their 60’s they become spiritual as they have experienced everything in their life and are free from materialistic world. But, some people realise their purpose at an early age. I have seen people spiritually awake during the pandemic and I am a part of that tribe.

If you start asking these questions or you feel in the following ways then you may be on your spiritual path:

1) What is the purpose of my life?

2) Have I been born to just earn money, eat and sleep?

3) What makes me happy?

4) I can feel detached ( but not really detached from the people you love) / I don’t have any expectations, I have become neutral.

5) seeing repetitive numbers.

6) Dreams which have a significant meaning.

7) Start to follow your passion.

8) It doesn’t matter how much you are earning.

9) free of judgements.

That’s it for today, my only intention was to make people aware of what is the real meaning of spirituality.

All these are from my personal experiences.

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Your mental well being is important

Removing some people out of your life whom you thought will stay forever or is the one is difficult but it’s the best thing you can do for your mental well-being. Don’t get stuck on someone if they don’t value you or give you time. If you are important for them they will show up in different ways you don’t have to wait for someone.

Instead, learn from the experiences and grow. Don’t let someone come towards only when they need you. If they are doing this understand your importance and let them go.

Today, I removed a person from my life. It hurts , it really pains but I had to do this because I was in more of mental pain. I was overthinking, and hurting myself. But it was important as that’s how I will grow in my life and create space for others.

Journal/ affirmations -Day 1

I am moving forward in my life, letting go the past. Keeping my heart open for whatever comes. I won’t let past affect my future love relationships.

I am happy, beautiful and healthy. I have everything what I want. And I will strive hard for what I want. I am here with a purpose to help and motivate people and I will focus on that.

I will create more content on weekends( not being lazy). I will eat healthy and improve my health. I will not react to others opinions and from today I will not available for everyone. I am closing my doors and keeping it open only for genuine people. If you were not there , the times I needed someone then sorry I am also not available for you.

I will not let others opinion affect my peace. I will work towards better self.

The power of Letting Go

Hello my fellow bloggers!

It’s been a long time we interacted by our beautiful way of communication via blogs😃. Today’s topic is absolutely different and I learnt it in 2021 though, I have been trying from a long time.

Anyways, let’s start with today’s topic.

I know it’s difficult to move on from someone with whom you feel loved. But, sometimes life puts us in such situations where we have to take certain decisions… and what we do is move on.

Difference between moving on and letting go

Now, you need to understand this that moving on will always leave a part of memories or grudges with you. It will subconsciously make you focus on the negative like am I not good enough, did they ever loved me etc. So, basically externally you moved on from that person but internally you are having a conflict. Deep down you are always thinking and that’s just making you sad. So, doesn’t that mean that you actually never move on from someone… right?

But, when you start letting go (and this is not just applicable for your husband/boyfriend or girlfriend) you accept the situation in a positive manner and are ready to move ahead in your life. You start focusing on better things, on yourself. And the best part is you don’t hold any grudges.

Even if that person has cheated on you or left you when you needed them the most, don’t hold grudges that will only make you vulnerable. They did what they wanted to and you don’t have to do the same by holding grudges.

So, instead of thinking about whom to blame, start focusing on your self , on how you can improve yourself, how can you practice self love, be ambitious, have goals to smash . So that you can proudly say, that I achieved what I wanted to! 😀

I hope I am clear why letting go is much more important than moving on…

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Meeting people has a deeper meaning…..

Hello my fellow bloggers or anyone who googled “why did I meet him/her, what is the purpose of meeting people in our lives”; and you happened to stumble on my page then you are welcome 😊.

If you googled that question or just had a random thought or you found the name of the blog attractive, then all I want to say is ; you are on a spiritual path😊.

Often times, people enter our lives. To some we get attached, some become are best friends or just a hi/ hello friend. But, when you get emotionally attached or have expectations from someone and they leave you, this question may pop in your mind; Why did I meet him/her? What was their purpose,l?

So, I am here to answer this question for you… partially. According to my understanding and experiences of life.

I am going to throw some light on somethings on which you might not believe i.e. OUR PAST LIVES. Yes, sometimes people enter our lives because we have a karmic/soulmate/twin flame connection with them in our past lives.

But, a very important thing is they come to teach us a lesson. May be you are very emotional and trust others easily and you meet a particular person who breaks your trust. Eventually, you realise that you should not trust people so easily.

Not only that, what I personally feel is god sends people in our lives to make us a stronger person, to prepare us for the worst, and for the best. He just wants us to be the best version of ourselves. Because we as humans don’t realise that.

I have met so many people who have tested me emotionally, mentally and most importantly my patience. Once, they leave me and I look back I realised that they came to teach me a lesson. Though, not been with them is hurtful but the lessons learnt are worth all the pain.

So, never feel bad when someone leaves you rather remind yourself of the lessons you have learnt. Not everyone is so lucky to have you in their life because you are worth to be with the one who respects and loves you.

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Describing LIFE in one word….

Hello to anyone reading this, if you stumbled upon this blog while googling randomly. I want to talk to you about ‘LIFE’. Now, this won’t be any descriptive blog because I want you to think about a very important question.

The question has been reverberating in my mind from last night. And I have been getting proper sleep from them😬. Why? Because I answered to myself, I described my LIFE in one word. And I got all the answers about my worries and about my tensions.

I don’t want you to answer this question right now, may be you need to learn some things and then you will get an answer. All I want you to do is ‘think’.

I am not going to share my answer here as well. Because this blog is just to make you think and may be you will feel better after that 🙂.

So…. let’s think about the answer and keep it to ourselves. And keep working on yourself. Remember, when you start working on your fears; you rise. You will never fall.

Have a beautiful day!

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