Your mental well being is important

Removing some people out of your life whom you thought will stay forever or is the one is difficult but it’s the best thing you can do for your mental well-being. Don’t get stuck on someone if they don’t value you or give you time. If you are important for them they will show up in different ways you don’t have to wait for someone.

Instead, learn from the experiences and grow. Don’t let someone come towards only when they need you. If they are doing this understand your importance and let them go.

Today, I removed a person from my life. It hurts , it really pains but I had to do this because I was in more of mental pain. I was overthinking, and hurting myself. But it was important as that’s how I will grow in my life and create space for others.

Journal/ affirmations -Day 1

I am moving forward in my life, letting go the past. Keeping my heart open for whatever comes. I won’t let past affect my future love relationships.

I am happy, beautiful and healthy. I have everything what I want. And I will strive hard for what I want. I am here with a purpose to help and motivate people and I will focus on that.

I will create more content on weekends( not being lazy). I will eat healthy and improve my health. I will not react to others opinions and from today I will not available for everyone. I am closing my doors and keeping it open only for genuine people. If you were not there , the times I needed someone then sorry I am also not available for you.

I will not let others opinion affect my peace. I will work towards better self.

Soulmate…

Hello fellow bloggers , it’s the first time I have tried my hand at poem. The poem was written in Hindi but I have translated it in English. Though, somewhere there might be loss of originality but still I have tried to retain it. It’s written with a lot of love and emotions. Hope you like it 🙂

Being away from you has made me realise how close I have come to you.

Never , even in my dreams I had thought that this could happen… but now when it’s already done, then it’s permissible to think about you all the time ⏱

Your sweet little face with those almond shaped eyes come in front of me every time, and all I can do is just smile 😊.

I do not know why but when I am with you, I am not able to think about anything because all I want to do is be in that moment and just listen to you (you are so dear to me).

When I see you worrying about something or anything which makes you sad; my heart 💓 says ‘just go and pluck all the thorns from his way’.

Sometimes, I think how can someone come so close but can’t stay. At that moment all I want to do is hold your hand and stop the time.

People might say that it’s the start , may be its attraction but I know it’s not because I don’t expect anything in return from you.

Whether, you are with me in future or not , but I always want to see you happy.

And may be someday you will realise that there is someone who can love you to this extent.

This love is eternal…..

The power of Letting Go

Hello my fellow bloggers!

It’s been a long time we interacted by our beautiful way of communication via blogs😃. Today’s topic is absolutely different and I learnt it in 2021 though, I have been trying from a long time.

Anyways, let’s start with today’s topic.

I know it’s difficult to move on from someone with whom you feel loved. But, sometimes life puts us in such situations where we have to take certain decisions… and what we do is move on.

Difference between moving on and letting go

Now, you need to understand this that moving on will always leave a part of memories or grudges with you. It will subconsciously make you focus on the negative like am I not good enough, did they ever loved me etc. So, basically externally you moved on from that person but internally you are having a conflict. Deep down you are always thinking and that’s just making you sad. So, doesn’t that mean that you actually never move on from someone… right?

But, when you start letting go (and this is not just applicable for your husband/boyfriend or girlfriend) you accept the situation in a positive manner and are ready to move ahead in your life. You start focusing on better things, on yourself. And the best part is you don’t hold any grudges.

Even if that person has cheated on you or left you when you needed them the most, don’t hold grudges that will only make you vulnerable. They did what they wanted to and you don’t have to do the same by holding grudges.

So, instead of thinking about whom to blame, start focusing on your self , on how you can improve yourself, how can you practice self love, be ambitious, have goals to smash . So that you can proudly say, that I achieved what I wanted to! 😀

I hope I am clear why letting go is much more important than moving on…

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Meeting people has a deeper meaning…..

Hello my fellow bloggers or anyone who googled “why did I meet him/her, what is the purpose of meeting people in our lives”; and you happened to stumble on my page then you are welcome 😊.

If you googled that question or just had a random thought or you found the name of the blog attractive, then all I want to say is ; you are on a spiritual path😊.

Often times, people enter our lives. To some we get attached, some become are best friends or just a hi/ hello friend. But, when you get emotionally attached or have expectations from someone and they leave you, this question may pop in your mind; Why did I meet him/her? What was their purpose,l?

So, I am here to answer this question for you… partially. According to my understanding and experiences of life.

I am going to throw some light on somethings on which you might not believe i.e. OUR PAST LIVES. Yes, sometimes people enter our lives because we have a karmic/soulmate/twin flame connection with them in our past lives.

But, a very important thing is they come to teach us a lesson. May be you are very emotional and trust others easily and you meet a particular person who breaks your trust. Eventually, you realise that you should not trust people so easily.

Not only that, what I personally feel is god sends people in our lives to make us a stronger person, to prepare us for the worst, and for the best. He just wants us to be the best version of ourselves. Because we as humans don’t realise that.

I have met so many people who have tested me emotionally, mentally and most importantly my patience. Once, they leave me and I look back I realised that they came to teach me a lesson. Though, not been with them is hurtful but the lessons learnt are worth all the pain.

So, never feel bad when someone leaves you rather remind yourself of the lessons you have learnt. Not everyone is so lucky to have you in their life because you are worth to be with the one who respects and loves you.

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Pulling you out of the dark

Hi! fellow bloggers. My poetic side might come out today. So read at your own risk. Also, it may not be perfect.

I saw You are surrounded by darkness,

I gave you my hand, and pulled you into the light.

You are not able to believe that you are out because of all the scars which have healed from outside but inside they are still there.

But, I am here trying to make you understand that this is real, I am real;

You are confused, I am making you understand that don’t get confused listen to your heart,

You say, you are trying and leave…

I am waiting in front of the golden coloured gate filled with light , ready to walk with you inside it but you don’t come.

I am still waiting, in the hope that one day you will realise…

Though, in reality ONE DAY has not arrived, but still for the sake of completion of this poem let’s imagine the D day has come.

I was sitting in front of the golden door, wearing a white dress, waiting only for you…

And then you were there, smiling at me. I held your hands and took you inside the golden door..

And it was the best day of our lives ❤️

I really hope you guys enjoyed reading this short poem. This is my second attempt at it 🙂

Stay away from negative people

Hi!

I am back once again after a long time as I have been busy. This time with something I beg to differ with a saying “ stay away from negative people”.

Now, I understand not everybody will be able to relate to why I don’t agree with this saying.

We have always been advised to stay away from negative people as negativity is attracted more quickly as compared to positivity. It is also said that people find it difficult to stay positive in life.

But, I say why befriend with someone negative, WHY CAN’T We?

Have you tried to understand why a person is so negative? No, why should I that’s none of my business. Right? We always think in this manner.

There can be various reasons why someone is negative, may be they feel that they have failed, may be something really gruesome happened with them.

My whole point is no one is born negative, the experiences make them so. Yes, I accept that we can take bitter experiences also as a learning but some people are not so mature or are usually crying that why it happened with me.

What if I say why don’t we try to understand why a person is acting in this way, what must have made him/ her like that.

For e.g if you are from India then you must be pretty much aware about the SSR outrage that happened month’s back. So I saw so many people putting up stories on Instagram that why did he commit suicide, he could have talked to someone. I am glad that all these people are so strong mentally, but do you really think they are? NO

These are the same people who will step away from negativity, giving reasons I don’t like to be with such mindset.

Basically, these people are mentally weak themselves and they know that other’s behaviour will affect them.

So, now you know the reason of why someone would like to refrain from negative people.

I don’t say be with them when it starts affecting you, all I am trying to say is keep an open heart for everyone.

Listen, give solutions if you have but most importantly don’t let it affect you.

To whom should you stay away:

Manipulative people and,

People who demean you.

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How not to loose hope and be positive

Hi my fellow bloggers. Today, I have been feeling very impatient because I really want to write something but I am not able to think of any topics.

And I was loosing all hope, even thought of deleting the blog. But, I know writing is something which makes me happy. And that’s how I didn’t loose hope. So, I thought of sharing some activities I do to be positive in life or not to loose hope. And this is not something I do everyday, because I am also learning to look at the positive side of life. And one cannot be positive all the time with so many things happening.

But, all we can do is try….

So here is a list of things which I try to inculcate in my life everyday to be happy and stay positive:

1. Meditation; this is something whenever I do even for 10 mins makes me feel better. Take our your emotions while meditating. Because, those are the emotions which are somewhere hidden deep in you and really needs to come out.

2. Gratitude list; yes you heard it right. Before I used to feel all this is just a waste of time. But, what’s the harm in showing gratitude to the universe and to the people who love you. ( I am very bad at communication and showing my emotions.)

3. Physical activity; any form of physical activity is really important. It helps you focus on your goals. Also, there are many benefits of moving your body.

4. Self care; no it’s not getting pampered in a salon. It’s about internal self care. Self care for me is taking a walk and listening to songs, dancing, doing yoga and eating what I like.

5. Procrastination; stop procrastinating and start doing.

6. Stop discussing people; stop discussing what others are doing in their life. Focus on yourself. Be with people who uplift you or discuss ideas.

7. Comparison; stop scrolling though social networking websites and comparing yourself with others. The grass is always greener on the other side. You don’t even know what they are going through.

8.Read; yes you heard it right. Reading and updating your knowledge is very important. Keep yourself updated.

That’s all for today. I hope this helps you keep focused on what you want to achieve.

I am also thinking of posting daily journal. Do comment if you think I should 🙂.

Broken… being hurt

Being hurt by someone you love is the worst thing ever… isn’t it?

But, being hurt over and over again.. means they have started taking you for granted or they don’t value you or you are just compromising( though, in your mind you just feel ‘they are being broken themselves.. so just let it

They are heartbroken, but that doesn’t give them the right to say hurtful things to you. Because we understand their situation, so in return we always want to treat them with love. But if they don’t understand move on… let them be.

In the end, if something is hurting you, then I would say talk it out. Let them know and then move on…

Confused and indecisive…

Always confused when it comes to making decisions???

Why are people so confused? Because, the mind says A and heart says B. And you are stuck, not able to decide which one to choose.

But, how can you help yourself in getting out of these confusions. READ.

Read about different topics, people, and world. Have knowledge about everything. I am not saying that you need to have an in depth knowledge about everything. Now, why is this important? Having knowledge about everything, enhances your sphere, and you can take decisions without been confused.

You get confused only when you don’t have knowledge on a particular subject.

So, what I do when I get confused about choosing a job from 2 options available. The best thing is to realise what is more important for you, profile or money or the tag of an MNC!

Confused in love

Now, this is the most loved confusion we all have. Right 🙂 ?

Confused, whether I should wait for someone or move on..

Confused, whether I should say yes or no..

Confused, whether it was right meeting that person or not??

I would say first, focus on yourself. Self love, self development is more important. Once, you start accepting yourself the right person will stay.

Second, you can let things flow. Don’t close the doors. Keep it open.

So, here was a short and sweet blog which I wanted to write today. I hope it helps someone 🙂.